It has been exactly one year that I found out about my husband had an affair that started when we were engaged, and continued up until April of last year. We will be married 4 yrs November. We have a 17 month old son, and another baby on the way. It feels like yesterday I was sitting on the couch when I finally confronted him for the last time, with some threat of emailing this women. He slowly told the truth...bits and pieces. We went to marriage counseling for a month. He is deeply sorry, I don't doubt. I am the one dealing with the everyday all consuming thoughts of his affiar. Every detail is clear in my head, I can't stand it. I can't stop it. If I did not have my son, I would have left. But now what? How do I know it will get easier or will my everyday be like this? Or do I leave now, because my son is still young to not know what is going on?
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