This is my first time posting a message. I've been married for 17 yrs. My main reason for joining this group is to try to get some advice, recommendations and support from those of you who have experienced an affair that has resulted in a child being born. My husband had a two month affair w/ a woman that he barely knew and just this past week, she delivered his child. I am an OB nurse and was on the unit when this happened. It was the most humiliating experience of my life as everyone there knew the situation because made a point to tell everyone. However, I was able to hold the child- w/o the OW knowing of course. Anyway, paternity testing has to be done as this child could be her husbands (which she is now divorced from). Anyway, if the child is proven to be my husbands, he is considering involvement. Although I don't have negative feelings towards the child, I don't really know how this is going to affect our relationship (which we're trying very hard to reconcile) and our other children. Any thoughts??????
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