Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
There was a post about cheating songs. How they tear us up. The one out by Daughtry right now was a big one.
What do the cheaters think when they hear those songs?? My H new favorite song was the one my Maroon 5 "Makes Me Wonder" until my daughter told him it was about a cheater.
ALSO
When we the betrayed hear a love song about lost love we think of our cheating spouse right? But what do our cheaters think about? Their OP?
When my H and I are in the car and a song comes on about a break up is he thinking of her??? or his he thinking of what he has done to me???
Come on cheaters lets here from you. How much do you think about you OP instead of the spouse you betrayed?
What do the cheaters think when they hear those songs?? My H new favorite song was the one my Maroon 5 "Makes Me Wonder" until my daughter told him it was about a cheater.
ALSO
When we the betrayed hear a love song about lost love we think of our cheating spouse right? But what do our cheaters think about? Their OP?
When my H and I are in the car and a song comes on about a break up is he thinking of her??? or his he thinking of what he has done to me???
Come on cheaters lets here from you. How much do you think about you OP instead of the spouse you betrayed?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
My new life with out him
the Sasquatch shuffle
I'm heading to Memphis
What the hell was I thinking
Peace with out him.
What goes around comes around [some one already did that one]
After listening to the words a few times, I decided it didn't sound like he was thinking about me when he heard it. After all, I'm still here. His OW dumped him.
BTW, it aint over till it's over, Sudzy. How long it takes to heal, or not, is up to you. That isn't something they can take away from us.
Eve
~Right after the whole truth about my affair came out, my H couldnt even look at me let alone sleep in the same bed w me. I'd wake up 3 or 4 times a night and search the house to make sure he hadnt left. I woke up one night at like 3 in the morning and couldnt find my H. When i finally figured out where he was, i saw him sitting in the bathtub, sobbing. He had a single candle lit and was listening to out wedding song.~
Every time i hear "better than me" that image of my H comes to mind. I will never be able to get it out of my head, and it brings me to tears. This song will always be close to my heart because it will forever remind me of the pain i caused and how lucky i am that my H is still by my side.
I hope everyone who's ever cheated has that one moment of clairity where you can see the damage you've caused and you decide that NOTHING is worth the hurt and pain you are forcing upon the people you are supposed to love. Making that decision can be difficult, but its benefits outweigh everything else a thousand fold.