I'm not sure how to act toward my husband. I know that he still loves me more than her. I want so much for him to end it, but he says he can't and that it's like an addiction. I can't give him an ultimatum because he will just resent me. We both just want resolution, so he says this has to just run it's course. He wants me to be patient and says that things are getting better, but I don't believe it. Every day that goes by is like a fresh new heartbreak all over again. I'm sinking deeper and deeper. I don't know if it's better to stand by, strong and supportive so that I will be more appealing and not push him away, or if I should distance myself and make him afraid that I will leave him soon if things don't change. I want more than anything to work this out, but this pain is so intense that I know I will eventually reach my limit and end our marriage if he can't let her go.
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