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What's Forever For?

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This was written and sang by a 13 year old boy...
Billy Gillman

I've been looking at people
And how they change with the times
And lately all I've been seeing are people
Throwing love away and losing their minds

Or maybe it's me that's gone crazy
'Cause I can't understand why
All these people keep hurting each other
When good love is so hard to come by

So what's the glory in living
Doesn't anybody ever stay together anymore
And if love never lasts forever
Tell me what's forever for

I've been listening to people
And they say love is the key
And it's not my way to let them lead me astray
It's only that I want to believe

But I see love-hungry people
Trying their best to survive
While in their hands is a dying romance
And they're not even trying to keep it alive

So what's the glory in living
Doesn't anybody ever stay together anymore
And if love never lasts forever
Tell me what's forever for

And if love never lasts forever
Tell me what's forever for.

I think this is my theme song now....

What do you think?
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This is a very moving and true song. We can't promise anyone forever because life has so many things in it that we can't control. We can love someone and make promises but we all change over the years. It doesn't mean that we didn't mean it when we made that promise but it just means that we grew in a different direction than the one that we made the promise to.
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Thank you, Debbie for your answer...

If someone doesn't love another anymore, they should just leave and get an divorce, rather than hurt their mate by committing adultery....
I must say that I do think you did the right time, by leaving instead of hurting more...

But I really believe that we should really try to work out our problems, before one commits adultery....

I am a Christian, so I feel that I stand before God everyday with every choice....
and he judges me.....
Because I have worked around men for over 30 years and had many chances to run around on my husband, but I have to live with yourself and God's judgment....

I guess, most people don't feel the same as I do..
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Unfortunately in a lot of marriages, there's communication problems that make things worse. If the two involved can't talk and discuss the problems and feelings, it's almost impossible to salvage the marriage. It takes two to make things better. No one person can hold a marriage together. Unless they are a doormat for their spouses. And that's not a marriage if that is going on. Too many other problems come into marriage because of the lack of communication and understanding. If you don't know what makes the other person tick, then you can't possibly understand them. Some people just take these things for granted.
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