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Adrienne

I hate to say it....but it usually is never 'just texting'....and his reaction to you about the cell phone records is suspicious....
I understand about the stress bringing on eating disorder symptoms....my daughter is recovering from a serious eating disorder...and I know that is your way of dealing with stress.. but you know that it is NOT a healthy way of dealing with things....I'm sorry that you have to deal with this stuff from your husband..What did the text messages say? do you know? and who were they to? a co-worker?
don't bring anything up to him yet...what did you find on the cell phone?
he is obviously planning on stonewalling you....he is unfortunately forcing you to be a detective...but,you probably have to do that to give yourself some answers....

I did detective work for 12 weeks. He told me he was leaving me out of the blue, I started searching cell phone records two days later. I noticed very long conversations with two different numbers in the same town. It set off major suspicion, but I disregarded it because then we started getting along wonderfully and communicating and having lots of sex. I couldn't imagine at that point that it could be another woman, and surely if it was, he would have given her up after we were getting along so well.

Then six weeks later, after still investigating and trying to figure out why he was clicking off the computer when I walked in, and carrying his cell phone with him everywhere, and trying to figure out what was going on in his head, I overheard him say, "miss you, too" to someone and when I asked him about it, he said, no, I didn't say that, I said so and so, and told me it was a guy he was talking to. I wanted to believe it so bad because he was so sincere and told me he would never cheat, etc. I feel like a total idiot now, but it was just a defense mechinism, I think. My heart didn't want to really know the truth, but my brain was telling me I really knew.

The next week, I called him (while he was out of town with her) and confronted him and he cried and begged me not to divorce him. You know what? An hour later he called back and told me he didn't sleep with her, just talked to her, and I tried to make myself believe it for another six weeks! Twelve weeks of losing weight, not eating, not sleeping, and him lying, most impressively, the whole time.

Even if it is just texts, honey, it's still cheating. He is giving his time and attention to another woman. I agree with adrienne. Get someone to find out for sure for you before you go through this for three months like I did and almost drive yourself crazy. I don't want you to be miserable that long. Get hard proof, and then decide what the next step is. I wish to God I would have found this site or snoopbuddy or hired a detective or something while I was going through my torture. I know you don't want to believe it, but you know in your heart, don't you? God bless. I'm soooo sorry you're going through this.

If it was really nothing then why would he be mad? If there is nothing to hide then he should be willing to show you everything. If he does the problem will be solved and all will be well, right?
My husband was "just IMing." I'm sure it started innocently but it sure as hell mutated to something that drove me here. I asked my H several times what was up; he denied everything. It was only when I read him an e-mail I found open on his computer did he fess. If he's not fessing willingly you'll be forced to find proof.
I would see if you could possibly get a copy of all of his text messages from the phone company or at least find out how. You may need his SSN to make this work. Also, see if he calls a particular number often especially if your not around... Good luck-

Please dont let this man play you for a fool. You will only blame yourself when the truth comes out and it will be much harder to get past when you feel as though you "let him play you as a fool". If he gets mad and calls you a paranoid bitch then hes got something to be hiding.