Ok so I spoke to soon, yesterday was my birthday I got no acknowledgement from H at all. The day before my kids threw me a mini birthday party, he came home from school ready to leave to work and all he said to my daughter was Oh nobody told me about this. It wasn't like he was mad and then again he never made an attempt to ask anyone if there were any plans nor did he bother to offer. OK so this is the 18th on the 19th my actual birthday I get two calls from him no hey happy birthday no hey go to hell no nothing! First call was to ramble about how tired he is and the second was to be nosy and ask where my sisters were taking me out for the evening. I told him I was getting ready and that I had to go. He came home from work AGAIN not a word so I just pretended to be asleep. Then today he kept asking why the attitude why was I so mad at him. I didnt bother answering I just felt like if I treated him that way on his birthday I would never hear the end of it. I was not angry that he didnt even buy a 99 cent card it was that he never even acknowledged me. Im so lost because things were going good we even went to dinner on Valentines day now this. Im not sure how to read into this. He had been treating me so nice before all of this. Is this a new way of him covering his tracks by being nice to me so I can think all is well I just dont know anymore.......
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