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What do I love about myself? Why am I special?

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I've been reading and thinking and reading and thinking about all the beautiful, wonderful people on this site. Truly some of the kindest hearts and most giving of souls I have ever had the honour of meeting.

We all look at what we are grateful/thankful for. We all look at what what we love in our partners and things and other people that make us happy.

But, what do you love about yourself, why are you special?
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I love that I love myself more then anyone(well other then my son)..

I may not be the prettiest, the thinnest, hell even the smartest but I never ask anyone else to do anything that I wouldnt do myself.

I give all that I have to everything I do. I am a very passionate person and when I look in the mirror, i`m ok with the reflection that I see there..
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It took me a while to love myself. It was something I just always assumed I did. But you know, I didn't. I now love myself enough to see that I don't have to live with hurt and betrayal. I love myself enough to know I'm worthy of being treated well and respected. :)
Thriver
Thriver
I love that I have learned how to grow and change. When I was younger I was smarter, better looking, funnier, and a lot more stylish, but today, I am frumpy, lack good grooming, miss reading the news some days.....I am also able to admit when I am wrong, and not think I should be/am perfect, and try to defend that idea. It has paved the way for real joy in my life.
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I love who I am. I love myself and all that I am, and accept that if this is who I am going to be for the rest of my life so be it. I am a good, kind, sharing, loving person who gives unashamedly of herself in all she does. I love how angry, sad, happy and passionate I can be about everything and nothing. I love that I hate social injustice and care enough to stand up and help people where I can.
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I love that I am a kind, compassionate, and loyal person. Sometimes to a fault. I used to love that I am trusting. But unfortunately I am not so trusting anymore.
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Thank you
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I love that I have always been a loving, kind and committed person.. When I am your friend, I always do what I say I will do and not lie to you...

I love my children, sister and all my family and count myself blessed that I have such wonderful family and friends...
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I love to laugh!!! I think my best quality is that I mostly like to laugh at myslef!! Someone recently told me I was endearing because of it...that others wanted to be around me for it....NO, it wasn't a man either - but I think it made my week!

-Jax
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This is a great post!
My counselor had me do homework recently where I had to list 10 things I loved about myself,,, It was hard,, but you know what? I could do it and I found that I am quiet loveable! LOL
Then she made me contact 10 people in my life that I thought cared about me the most and ask them to send me in writing 10 things they loved about me the most! 7 of those 10 responded and they pretty much all matched the best part is that they matched mine! It was a very good self-esteem exercise! I should have shared that as a post for all the communities that I am a member of!
Hugs to you all!
And Hearbroken..... I hope you are able to say 10 great things about yourself!
Big hugs to you!
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