My H had a 2yr A. During those 2 yrs, although he told me he wanted to stay w/me and work things thru, it took him almost 1 yr to decide for sure. During that yr, I caught him still seeing her. He moved out for a short time and then moved back last Thanksgiving. Things this past yr have been as good as it can get. He is home all the time, always picks up his phone when I call, we talk and are on the same page, etc. The hard part, of course, is for me to get over this, to learn to trust again, etc., but as far as the A goes, there has been absolutely no evidence that she is in the picture, or that he isn't faithful. He's been doing everything right, by the book, EXCEPT for yesterday. I found a random cell phone in his car, with a random no. on it, with 2 calls made to her totalling 50 mins, dated 9/1/09. I probably should have waited b4 opening my mouth, but I didn't. He gave me a story that I won't get into, because I really don't believe any of it. what do I do next? I think the cell phone is a phone w/prepaid min's on it. This is such a shocker, once again. He swears that he's been good and that he wants only me and despises her. I'd like to believe this but the phone-thing is too blatant. I want to catch him in the act. any advice?
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