I feel horrible. Inadequete. I just found out Friday night after some suspicions... I checked the phone records, found a number... Asked about it.. He said it was just someone from work and he was only talking to her because she was getting a divorce and was upset. After I still didn't believe him... I pressed and found out he has been kissing her at work and away from work, he even went to her kid's daycare after work to be with her. He swears it was only during last week that this went on and the phone records don't show any differently. I feel so hurt. I keep hearing him tell me he did it in my head over and over again. This girl and I know each other. My fiance and I have been together for 7 years almost and he has worked with her all this time. I go into the office, we have talked many times. She knows me well enough, and she knows he has a family. We have a little girl together, she's almost two. He swears he was just "acting stupid" and "liked the attention of someone liking him". What does that mean. I don't know how to move on from here. He says he doesn't want anyone else. THat it was a mistake. But it didn't happen only once... It happened like 5 or 6 times. I don't know what to do... Can anyone help?
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