I am not well today at all. I checked our monthly cell phone records as I allways do and still found texting going on between H and the OW. I am trying to make since of this, you see my husband is not like me, if someone does something wrong to me or I dont like a person I will not communicate to them at all unless they say sorry or something but no matter how bad the situation is I never contact or say much to the person. On the other hand it is in my husbands nature to still talk with a person as though nothing has happended. I have even see him do this in the past with his exwife. When I found out about the affair I told him that I need all communication to stop if this is to work....then the next month I checked the phone records and there was still texting going on. So I told him that I know he is still communicating with her and he said he had to deal with her and apoligize for draging her into this and hurting her (this is normal for my husband because he is this type of person). Last month beginning of Dec, I set him down again and I told him that I know that they are still speaking he stated that she called him once and that she texted him to see how he was doing but he did not respond. Well today the cell bill in available online (same time every month) so I checked it to see if there is still communication and there is. For his character this maynot be unusual but why would he continue to communicate with her if he knows it will hurt me, if he is stating he will never hurt me again. I have never stated where I get my info from and have even used a private investigator (of which he knows this) if freaked him out, so he knows I can have someone watch him at anytime without him knowing. There are know calls made to her she made a few into him.....If I confront him he will get upset because he will know that I envaded his privacy somehow and he really feels I should trust him. He has told me before that any conversation that he may ever have with her would mean nothing. What do I do this morning he knew that there was something wrong and he asked me was I ok I said I was fine....he said that I did not seem myself..... I said nothing. Need feedback please I am not a cryer but I cried today.
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