I was just wondering..to the people who have been or still are the cheaters...do you ever think of the family you may be destroying? what i mean is, we have kids and were pretty close(my kids and me), thats one of the reasons I could never cheat,,the faces of my kids would be popping in my head and the thought of putting them into a broken home just so I could fool around is more than I could stand! How does aperson do that to their kids(or the other persons kids). Were supposed to be setting an example for them, how do you teach you kids to be HONEST responsible adults when your fooling around? Dont they deserve better? Thats one of the things I could never understand about my wifes affair, I know she loves the kids but apparently not enough to focus her time and energy on them, instead she put her time and energy on the other guy...I mean even if she hated me,,dont they deserve better? Its probably obvious by now that I am from an older generation that puts family first...I guess I just will never understand the ME first mentality.
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