
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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Husband is verbally, mentally, and emotionally abusive. He breaks things threatens me and kids, and then threatens to commit suicide. He is extremely possessive and controlling. Has wanted to 'hook-up' with other couples and has forced me with someone when I was drunk. He was my first and I was 13 and he was 19. I have so much hate and anger toward him. He scares me at the same time. We fight every day, whether together or not because he won't leave me alone. I met someone who listened to me and cared about me and treated me with respect. He adored the kids and wanted to help. I fell head over heels for him. When my husband found out, he went on a rollercoaster of emotions and wants to change. He wants me back. I do not want to go back to him. I want to leave. I have wanted to leave for a long time and have been afraid. How can he change after 16 years. Our relationship was based on all of his lies. I can't get him to leave me alone and had to send the om away because I'm scared of what he will do to him. I don't know what to do from here. I should have left him before the affair, but felt so alone and was afraid. The om made me feel like I mattered and I should not suffer like this anymore. Like I can make a better life for myself and kids. But now that support system is gone and I'm terrified again.
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But also remember to be kind to yourself and to forgive yourself for what has happened and will happen. You were just a baby when you first got together and he is the only adult relationship you have known. Give yourself some time and room to decide how you want to live your life and whether in fact you are ready to step straight into another relationship.
Take care of yourself and I hope you find the strength and courage to leave him and find a better life.
Let the dust settle and get this situation ironed out. It will take much more time and energy than you think, but you will be a stronger better person and your children will benefit.
Once you are able to stand on your own, is the only time you should be getting into a relationship. Cultivate friends and relatives for the support you need.
I wish you strength and luck.