Folks - a little background. Married 16 yrs, 2 children. Caught the wife texting OM 7 mo ago, then found out about a previous 2-yr affair with a different OM. She admitted only what she knew I had proof of, and claims that she loves me and wants to work it out. Have tried to tell her what I need to know about what happened but she never wants to talk about it. Since then, she obviously doesn't feel the way she used to for me...does none of the small gestures that let me know she cares, and not doing other things she used to do. I don't think she's fooling around still, but at what point do I pull the plug on this thing? There is no point in continuing unless we're both in it 100%. I know this facade will only get worse. Anyone in the same situation? Thanks - I appreciate all the comments/ideas that are shared in these discussions.
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