When i learned about about my husband's affair, I tried to deal with it alone, internally. That lonliness was all consuming so I learned to lean on my closest friends and siblings for support. Without them, I absolutely would have taken a turn for the worst. What I learned in the process, though, is that there have been so many of our couple friends and family that have suffered the same tragedy as we have. Couples that I thought were untouchable. Some worked it out, others went separate ways.
And then I found this group which has helped me tremendously as well. I know I am not alone in my sorrow.
I have to question, though... Why is there so much infidelity in this world? Is it that hard to have integrity, faithfulness and honor in a marriage or relationship? I took my vows so seriously in front of God and family. To hear of so many people dismissing those vows is disheartening.
Although we are working on repairing our relationship, I don't wear my wedding ring any more. It doesn't hold the same significance and in fact reminds me of the broken promise. He says I should continue to wear it because we're fighting to save the marriage. Should i?
My wife and I have been married for almost 14 years. And, over those years I let myself slip into a pattern of working too much and not engaging enough with my family to communicate effectively. I recently found out that my wife began several on line relationships and one has led to her becoming sexually active with that person. I want to try and make changes to my interactions with my...
I grew up knowing I wanted to wait til marriage to have sex. I was so innocent and unexpreienced. But High School made that hard, when all boys wanted at that age was to get some.I had an high school sweetheart, my first love... I was jealous of his friendship with this other girl so I broke up with him... during our breakup he lost this virginity to someone else.We got back together and I...