When i learned about about my husband's affair, I tried to deal with it alone, internally. That lonliness was all consuming so I learned to lean on my closest friends and siblings for support. Without them, I absolutely would have taken a turn for the worst. What I learned in the process, though, is that there have been so many of our couple friends and family that have suffered the same tragedy as we have. Couples that I thought were untouchable. Some worked it out, others went separate ways.
And then I found this group which has helped me tremendously as well. I know I am not alone in my sorrow.
I have to question, though... Why is there so much infidelity in this world? Is it that hard to have integrity, faithfulness and honor in a marriage or relationship? I took my vows so seriously in front of God and family. To hear of so many people dismissing those vows is disheartening.
Although we are working on repairing our relationship, I don't wear my wedding ring any more. It doesn't hold the same significance and in fact reminds me of the broken promise. He says I should continue to wear it because we're fighting to save the marriage. Should i?
Long story short, I broke my wrist last fall, had surgery and rehab twice a week for 6 weeks with a removable splint; then, as that painful process was ending, had breast cancer, two surgeries and 6 weeks of daily radiation. The good news is an excellent prognosis; the bad news is that my BF of 12 years was not attentive at all to my needs. I had almost no use of my hand for weeks while it...
My H was at the airport today and texted me ... I am in front of Minute Suites. I texted back.. I thought u were in the airport. He said.. I am. I asked what is a minute suite. He said it’s a place to Nap, Relax, Work or f—k .. then texted I am being silly. I added the last one. So me being suspicious, I googled it. “For those business people who need a place to conduct an illicit affair,...