
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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I am happy for all of you that feel warm and fuzzy were you are now in your relationships. I"M NOT.
I hope as time goes on I get to that place. I"M NOT THERE YET.
Don't hammer me with your smart ass remarks because I am STILL PISSED OFF. They are LYING/CHEATING, BASTARDS and WHORES.
At some point you must have been were I am or you wouldn't have joined this Group.
If all you can do is make smart ass remarks to those of us that are still, HURT,PISSED and just plan depressed then don't make ANY comment on our Post's.
I hope as time goes on I get to that place. I"M NOT THERE YET.
Don't hammer me with your smart ass remarks because I am STILL PISSED OFF. They are LYING/CHEATING, BASTARDS and WHORES.
At some point you must have been were I am or you wouldn't have joined this Group.
If all you can do is make smart ass remarks to those of us that are still, HURT,PISSED and just plan depressed then don't make ANY comment on our Post's.
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It's been 18 months since I found out and 5 years since his last dirty deed.
I am statring to adjust to the new/rebuilding marriage, I do feel my husband is smarter and he tries everything to be the man he should have been.
I also still get my moments, sometimes something will trigger me the all hell breaks lose.
I don't think H and I could get warm and fuzzy. I don't think a lot of people do. I mean our eyes have been opened to something painful and I don't think a lot of people can close their eyes to it. Then again there are some that will fool themselves just so they can continue in the relationship. I think I've been guilty of this myself.
I was still putting myelf aside to work things out for a while. After a year and a half passed. I had to start focusing on me because I couldn't stand who I had become. I'm not all that now, but I'm a lot better. I can actually speak up before I'd just take it. I was too nice. What a freakin idiot I was. Oh well I'm learning.
I hope things work out for you and that you have peace, love and joy in your life again soon. Not just with H, but just you and your life as an individual. HUGS!
I need to win the lottery now!
A lot of times the people who are in a different place than you or I are are simply trying to shed light on our situation based on their own experiences. I don't believe anyone here is intentionally out to get anyone.
Just my opinion...
I tried the warm and fuzzy crap and if your anything like me....it lasts a nanosecond until the next time you get a triggering though or experience.
I still can't stomach the sight of my ex or the very sound of his voice.
I still refer to his girlfriend, the OW, as a major psycho whore.
I still cringe when I see his number on caller id and wouldn't answer if it weren't for the kids we have together.
I accept that he is outa here and am moving forward. I have no warm fuzzy where he is concerned.
But I am damned proud to have my life without the piece of garbage...
Hell mate, I can so relate to you.
I just shared this on another thread but enjoy anyway.
"Hatred is a bitter damaging emotion. It winds itself through he
blood, infecting its host and driving it forward without any reason.
It's view is jaundiced and it skews even the clearest of eye-sights.
Sacrifice is noble and tender. It's the action of a host who values
others above himself. Sacrifice is bought through love and decency.
It is truly heroic. Vengeance is an act of violence. It allows those
who have been wronged to take back some of what was lost to them.
Unlike sacrifice, it gives back to the one who practices it.
Love is deceitful and sublime. In its truest form, it brings out the
best in all beings. At its worst, it's a tool used to manipulate and
ruin anyone who is stupid enough to hold it.
Don't be stupid.
Sacrifice is for the weak. Hatred corrupts. Love destroys.
Vengeance is the gift of the strong.
Move forward, not with hatred, not with love.
Move forward with purpose.
Take back what was stolen. Make those who laughed at my pain pay.
Not with hatred, but with calm, cold rationale.
Hatred is my enemy. Vengeance is my friend.
Hold it close and let it loose.
May the gods have mercy on those who have wronged me because I will
have no mercy for them."
And as far as warm and fuzzy - when hell freeze's over! It won't be wasted on a cheater!
Prayers to us ALL!
But hey maybe it doesn't get into everyones heart and soul like it has mine. I still want to make the whore worry about what my next move is. She isn't out of the woods yet and neither is he. They are both setting on Satan's steps as far as I'm concerned for doing what they have done.
Angry,Bitter and Judgemental YEP thats me today. I hope one day I won't be but today I AM PISSED.