I've really looked inside my deep inner self and have decided that I really want to be with him still as his wife. I don't want a divorce and want to work on rebuilding trust in our marriage. I also want to work on all the things he thought where his reasons for cheating on me. He said he went to the ow because she was able to talk to her and that they had alot of the same issues. I want to be the person he talks to and can depend on. Tonight I will be asking him If he truely wants a divorce. If he say yes. Well then he will have to do it. Since I don't want it. Why should I do the dirty work, when he was the one who wants out and is not happy. If he says he dose not want a divorce. I will tell him that he will have to stop at once all contact with this ow. And we will have to work on rebuilding our marriage and our communication. There will be alot of work from the both of us. But I truely beleve I can over come this time and move forward to creat new and better memmories for us and our family. Alot will have to change. Any thoughts or ideas?
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