Infidelity Support Group

Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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want to call the other woman..

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deleted_user
i want to call the other woman!!

i want to tell her the real truth about this person that just moved into her home. I want to tell her about his recent past conversations and about our unborn baby boy. (i don't think he would of told her about us).

he not only told me this past few days he wanted to make things right and work things out. He denied any further contact with this woman and stated he was not dating anyone...

but he lives there in her house for the past three days!

i want to make his life unpleasant at least for a little bit (if she decides to take him as he is).
deleted_user
deleted_user
I don't blame her, I just want her to know what kind of person he is.
deleted_user
deleted_user
unfortunately if she is besotted with him she will think its sour grapes- but i would call perhaps just placing seeds of doubt might make her think x
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deleted_user
I think you need to look at what outcome are u trying for because with my experience the other woman will have to find out for herself what he is really like and will she even care? At the same time you have no obligation to plat by any rules only the ones you make for yourself,I understand and feel for you. Take care of u and ur baby x
RiS
RiS
Don't call. I did and wanted to tell her the kind of crap he pulls and sort of warn her and she tells me she loves him and not going away. Thius broke my heart even more and I will NEVER call her again. She'll see and just pray she gets what she deserves!
deleted_user
deleted_user
RiS,
he gave me his flippin new mobile number this weekend... but he moved in with her.

I want to call for my closure, since i was not given that.

I feel no matter what I do.. I'm damned. But if I do call, at least she will know that he CAN simply walk away from the responsibilities of being a father.

This kind of discomfort (even if just a little) is plenty compensation for what he has put me through.. this is my closure to tell him that I KNOW he's a LIAR and a CHEAT and that I was not crazy.

I don't want him, but i do want him to take some responsibility where he has lied to both of us. I don't care if she loves him, it won't break my heart as it has already been broken...and healing.

I've been the "better person" in all of this.. (till now)
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