My W has refused to stop seeing the OM and I have giving up on the marriage. She claims she has seperated and feels she can continue to have a relationship. We have a house that will go under If we stop paying. I will not move out and she has refused to move out as well. Lawyer has been contacted, but I do not have the money to go to court. It is a stand off and I will continue to care for my kids and not enter into a relationship with anyone at this time. It just gives her an out. I know she is guilty and she just points the finger back at me for the break down in the marriage. I have been asking for years to get some sort of help. She just decided to not work on the marriage and find a new person to fill her needs. I was in denial for so long and trusted her when she said she was going out with friends. I may have seen the signs, but did not want to accuse her. Now that I know and have proof I will just wait and hope we can sell the house soon. I might be able to win custody in a long fight, but what will that get me. The kids still need there mother and I feel like the kids should not suffer for her weak minded ways.
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