I have been married to my wife for 19 years. The first 12 years I thought where good, but I became less caring and did not show how much I loved her. She had an affair 7 years ago that distroyed me at first but gave me a real wake up call of what I need to do and change. We did it!!! We connected, we talked, we loved and held one another!!! but one day I got this weird feeling inside my stomach, I found myself checking her cell phone, I let it go for years with very strong suspisions. When I would ask her if she ever runs into the other man, she would say sometimes, but we never talk. they had broke it off 7 years ago. Last week I found a very graphic text message from him to her. I was beyond hurt. I showed it to her and she told me he just sent it, it meant nothing. After more digging, I have found out it has never stopped and they meet up from time to time and the text was just from when they where discussing the next get together. She has emotionally lost it now. We are going to concilling starting tonight. Why does she keep telling me I am the only one she loves and then do this behind my back.HELP I am going insane
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