So much has happened over the past year ! From the beginning she told me she didn't know his last name,& constantly lied to me about him not working with her,(she told me her fears about losing her job because of it),but all along she knew. I was so focused on finding him that I eventually did. Now I can ruin his life,if I choose to, but I keep asking myself how will that help me. I've been asking GOD to please take this vengence from my heart & help me forgive him & her so i can start to heal,(she'll lose her job too). All my wife wants to do is put this all behind us & move on, I'm stuck because of all the lies & the fact he still works there with her. I picked up a book called Change your mind & your life will follow, I've also been in therapy since it happened, but the book is amazing. I welcome all your thoughts & my prays are with all of you. Mickey
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