Good for you!!! While my husband was having his affair he went on two mini vacations and of course lied his ass of and said he was going camping with the "boys".... And dontcha know, they "camped" where there was no cell reception. The lying sonofabitch wasnt camping, he was in Pennsylvania with his dumb whore! It all came out when she ratted him off. My gosh I still get madder than hell when I think about that!

I am so glad to hear that I am not the only one that does not let my husband think that I have forgotten what he has done. He gets so angry when I tell him that I want gas receits and even when I check the mileage on the car but I am quick to tell him that it is his fault that I do not trust him. The way I look at it is if he is going to cheat again I will not be so stupid not to see it this time I will catch him and then his ass will be gone.I love my husband but I am a strong women and I want my 2 little girls to grow up being strong independent woman who will not think that they can only servive if they have a man.I am also quick to tell him that. I ask him if he would want our daughters to stand by and let a man do what he has done to me and still be with that man. He says that he would not want tham to go through any of this shit and so I have to show them that I will not just sit back and be ok with his games. If I can stand my ground than I know that I am showing my girls that they should stand theirs. I will no longer be a blind wife. I am going at this marriage of ours with my eyes wide open and my mouth even wider.