I have been seeing someone for about 2 yrs now. He persued me until I began to find him irrasistable. It didn't take long for our relationship to go sour, he has a horrible habit of calling me names that I have never been called before (using descriptions of my body to insult me). During our relationship he has accused me of fooling around and becomes very angry during these times for no valid reason. Let me share one finding that left me confused....I guess we had been together for about 9 months when all of the sudden he had to wash his own (white clothes) which consisted of his underwear and maybe one T-Shirt and he would under no circumstance let me have this one particular load to wash along with mine...after a couple of weeks or so I went in to the laundry room before he had a chance to wash his clothes and every one of his underwear had a black stain in the seat of them (not what you are thinking) I later found graphite and realized that was what had caused the stains in his underwear. I began to watch his pattern and he would dart into the bathroom for some period of time and then go straight out the door to work. I researched some and found out that graphite is used as a lubricate by some men for anal sex. So can anyone give me their thoughts on this???? Could he be having a relationship with a man? I recently found out that he has been with another woman (which he says only happened once) but he would never admit to being with another man because he condemns homosexuality to the extreme sometimes to me.
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