I have been married for 3 years. When I met my husband, I knew immediately that I was going to marry him. The cliche "love at first sight" situation. Our relationship was perfect. I had come from a relationship where I had been repeatedly cheated on and I swore I would never put up with that again.
Last summer, I got a message from a guy on FB telling me that my husband was cheating on me with this guys wife. Turns out, it was an old girlfriend of my husband's who he dated but was never serious with. Immediately, I called him out on it. He admitted that he had met up with her but maintained that it was "innocent" and she was just looking for someone to talk to. I didn't buy it. Her husband had emails between them that he sent to me and it was not as innocent as my husband made it out to be.
He has (allegedly) swore off all contact. To this day, my husband maintains that it was not physical, despite her having sent him very provocative photos and the emails that suggested otherwise. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and told him we would work through it because, truthfully, I don't want to throw in the towel. My reasoning is that if the shoe were on the other foot, I would hope that he would be as forgiving and not simply give up on me. I should add that I have not spoken to anyone else about this, no friends or family. Just him and I.
We (I) have struggled trying to trust again. I want to look at his phone every 5 minutes. Has anyone else been in my shoes, and I'd so, how do you mend that??
I have been married for almost 2 and have been with my now husband 6 years. I have recently been having an affair with a female coworker I'll call Megan. He knows about my past history with a handful of women but not about my current one.For a while she and I only flirted but on a recent weekend trip out if town for work we roomed together and ended up being intimate together. It has happened 3...
Been with him off and on for 11 years but he has been married for 6 yrs he is constantly around me more than he is with his now wife she knows about me but continues to be married to him knowing where he goes and spend his time me and the wife have chatted over the phone but never seen each other in person no telling how that'll end in person he loves me and said he made mistake by marrying her...