My husband abandoned me for another woman in February this year. I assumed it had been going on for a month or so when he left because he had an affair and left me for another woman once before and I started to see the same clues (concerned with appearance more nights out etc). I found out on Saturday my husband was having an affair when he married me in July last year.I think he didnt leave me and went through with the marriage because she was at the time living with her husband. I gather she and her husband separated at Christmas and that seems to have been what put the nails in the coffin of our marriage. The affair seemed to go from casual sex to a need for him to be with her all the time. I'm guessing the affair destroyed her marraige too. From your own experiences, do you think he could really be in love with this woman? I dont see how a relationship created in this way can last I mean, if you loved someone, why would you marry someone else? do you think he will ever come "out of the fog" so to speak once the honeymoon period is over?
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