My H thinks I should be over his A. I found out about it mid-November. It started with him trying to help a co-worker through a divorce. I should mention I knew her. He started complimenting her which led to flirting which led to sexual conversations. He started txtg her in Dec 06, a lot, then had drunk sex once in his office after a happy hr. He happened to have a condom in his desk drawer, which we have NEVER use! He kept it after the university he works for handed them out. I found out about the txtg 1st & a masterbation video he sent her.Once I found out, he stopped txtg. Still suspicous, I looked in his work email & found he contiuned emailing sexual msgs & also that they went to dinner & kissed (this is right after the birth of our baby). I am trying to work through this w/him, but he wants to sweep it all under the rug. He has never asked for my forgiveness and that really worries me. I KNOW it will NEVER happen again. I'm crying almost everyday and he just wants to move forward. I really don't know what to do. How long is too long to get past this?
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