I know there was a post a while about this..Over a year ago my H had an affair and I just found out recetnly because he just found a baby resulted in the affair. I haven't told anyone nor has he. I felt if I told people they would judge me if I stayed.. It's not that easy to leave right now and I think it's more to protect my children. Not wanted people to find out so my children don't have that stigma attached to their father. I"m still working through things though it has only been less than a month. I decide to leave I will probably tell but if I stay I probably won't tell. Those of you who didn't tell how do you handle it when you have rough days and are so mad at them that you wish everyone knew what a jerk they were. It's eating me up inside and I don't know what the next step is. I need to try to get past this or deal with it somehow to move on but don't want to just blurt this out and regret this later on and not take it back.
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