Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
My bf and I had been dating since June 2006. We officially broke up in June. Since then we had been trying to work things out. Things seemed a little bumpy but we both wanted to work through things because we love each other. On October 6, 2007 we broke it off completely and didn't talk for two weeks. He came to visit and then he professed all of this love for me and told me how he missed me and thought about us. He told me he still loved me and that if we got together later down the road that we would be great together better than the first time. We hung out for the rest of the week and it felt like old times. Then he went home and we didn't really talk. There was still distance. We would occasionally text.
Once he got back he got into trouble at work and was placed on adminstrative leave. As a result, he was under tremendous stress. He pushed me away and everything.On Sunday, I found out that he cheated and is the father of a 2 1/2 month old baby. He cheated with his ex gf/best friend.I was completely outdone and I thought about everything and even after the actual cheating incident he was still talking marriage and the like... Anyways...He said that his feelings were real. I love him very much and I thought that we had a future. By the way... he is currently dating someone else..If he comes around should I accept him back into my life?
Once he got back he got into trouble at work and was placed on adminstrative leave. As a result, he was under tremendous stress. He pushed me away and everything.On Sunday, I found out that he cheated and is the father of a 2 1/2 month old baby. He cheated with his ex gf/best friend.I was completely outdone and I thought about everything and even after the actual cheating incident he was still talking marriage and the like... Anyways...He said that his feelings were real. I love him very much and I thought that we had a future. By the way... he is currently dating someone else..If he comes around should I accept him back into my life?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
i've been doing a lot of thinking about trust, repairing it, and moving forward with relationships in this kind of situation, and it occurs to me that trust is never really restored.
you read the posts of people here, the victims, and it's not hard to see that even years after the affair(s) there are trust issues.
think of it like herpes. maybe it's in remission. but one day you will find yourself wondering.
love is not an absolute; it is an emotion we give to others. that means there will be others you love. hopefully one that will apprciate who you are and what you offer enough to honor commitment.