Is it ok to want to feel attractive and desireable, to want to stay in shape and look good? Is it asking for trouble when you take the time to put makeup on and want to look pretty before you leave the house? Is it ok to wear a sundress and to look attractive in it when walking your dog around the block. Am I asking for trouble when I make myself look nice? I have to say that I almost feel guilty when I make the attempt to dress nice and look pretty and then men hit on me or make remarks about how I look. I feel like maybe I asked for it? When I go to a get together at our friends house and my girlfriends husbands flirt with me, is it my fault? I have one girlfriend that gets so mad at me when her husband flirts with me. He is just a big flirt anyways, but he seems to make me his target at every get together. He has crossed the line at one time by slapping me on the butt, and I let him know by giving him a dirty look. But is it me??? And I feel guilty because I have seen so much on this forum about cheating and wonder if I would ever cross the line and if it would be something I was looking for..... I have been with my hubby for 25 years, married for 19+ and have never cheated, he has been overseas in the military and has been away giving me plenty of opportunity to cheat, I never have. Why can't I just look pretty and feel ok about it? Why do I have to feel guilt? Is it because my husband cheated that I feel guilty when I look attractive to other men? Does this make any sense at all????
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