
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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I have been married for 11 years to a wonderful man who loves me and respects me. Unfortunately, our sex life is pretty much inexistent. Last summer through work I met this married man and I could not help but fall in love with him. He is a Christian Mennonite with several kids. He seemed very interested in me and we even went out together for lunch (I asked him) but I got scared right then and there and nothing happened. Then we stopped working together and with this and that we have not kept in touch any more. OK, I told him I did not think getting together was a good idea. He has not made any attempts to get in touch with me any more. I think of him all the time and I look for reasons to call him. I think I am in love with him. So here I am, in love with a man I have had nothing with, with no hope to see him again and feeling miserable. Is there anyone out there to tell me something about this? Has anyone undergone something like that? Should I pursue him? Please, I am in a lot of pain. Thank you for your opinion, especially if you are a man or a woman who has experienced something like this. I would like the a male point of wiew of this if possible.
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Sorry to sound so harsh, but you need woken up. How would you like it if your husband did this to you? Or if you read exactly what YOU just wrote but it was your husband that wrote it about another woman?
Take your husband for sex therapy. But cheating? YOu're abusing him every time you so much as think about. Heres a thought. get a divorce. Then have all the sex with someone else that you want- without hurting anyone.
cheating would be a horrible choice.
First of all, TRUST ME you don't want to be with a man who would dump a wife and family -- which he probably would not do anyway, but if he did, what would you have? A guy who cheats on his wives and dumps them. Not an ideal husband, right?
Next, I have a close friend who is in a situation a lot like yours. She doesn't get sex/affection/cuddling at home, so she found a boyfriend. Now she is constantly stressed and worried about getting caught, what it will do to her family, how to see the side guy enough, whether to allow herself to get more emotionally involved with the side guy.... etc. In other words, her affair has made things WORSE, not better. Now she is gone a lot on trumped up excuses, her husband works all the time, and their daughter is like a vagabond, always finding different places to stay because her parents are hard to reach. It's pitiful, really.
It's not surprising that you feel "love" for this guy, but please understand that what you're calling love is just a deep and powerful attraction for what you don't have!
whew... deep breath.... don't make any life-changing decisions right now, and don't do anything you'll regret. Figure out how to get a clear picture or the situation and how to make a clear minded decision about how to go forward.
But please, don't cheat. If you think you are in pain now, just wait until you throw an affair into the mix.
You've talked to this OM. You've felt an *attraction* to him, but do not mistake attraction and infatuation for being in love. It is SUCH an easy trap in which to become ensnared, and you really deserve better than that. So does the real man who has stuck by you up to now.
If you want sex, I humbly suggest you talk to hubby about your needs and figure out some kind of compromise or agreement BEFORE you do anything. This man loves and respects you - he will most certainly LISTEN to you. Give him that chance.