I have been married for 11 years to a wonderful man who loves me and respects me. Unfortunately, our sex life is pretty much inexistent. Last summer through work I met this married man and I could not help but fall in love with him. He is a Christian Mennonite with several kids. He seemed very interested in me and we even went out together for lunch (I asked him) but I got scared right then and there and nothing happened. Then we stopped working together and with this and that we have not kept in touch any more. OK, I told him I did not think getting together was a good idea. He has not made any attempts to get in touch with me any more. I think of him all the time and I look for reasons to call him. I think I am in love with him. So here I am, in love with a man I have had nothing with, with no hope to see him again and feeling miserable. Is there anyone out there to tell me something about this? Has anyone undergone something like that? Should I pursue him? Please, I am in a lot of pain. Thank you for your opinion, especially if you are a man or a woman who has experienced something like this. I would like the a male point of wiew of this if possible.
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