
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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Okay, today we went back to therapist. Things have been going smoothly the past week. No huge issues to discuss, she decided to work on some patterns. No big surprise, but I tend to take on the role of "victim", she wants me to try and get out of that mind set. She wants me to see that I have options and that I am "empowered". She knows that my goal is to stayed married, so what is my option? I am a smart person, I get all of this, what I don't get is HOW????? She said we will continue to work on the how but I don't even know how to start (yes, pathetic is coming to mind- sorry Kat). Does anyone have any ideas? I don't want to continue to be his door mat, I just don't know how to deal with his issues and stand up for myself. I need help!!
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I just gave Jae this advice. be selfish. yes, be as selfish as you can be. your tendency is to give too much. Stop. Ask for more from him. insist he give tto much!
My husband now makes dinner, does dishes, laundry, whatever. Sometimes I just dont do it. if he wants it done, he can do it.
sometimes you just have to do the opposite of what you have been doing. Read, "GET THIS". Trust me YOU WILL NEVER BECOME TOO SELFISH AND HE WILL NEVER BECOME TOO UNSELFISH. Just try it. ask for more?
Stand up for yourself... HOW????
Start by saying NO to something that you don't feel like doing!!
And YES to things that you want for yourself!!
I wish you the very best... God bless!!