I guess no one respects the ring? i don't understand why Some females & Males just ignore he/she is Married ... why put someone through the pain , it's a simple it means something and 1 is Marraige walk away sheesh's i turned so many women ..in the 34 yrs i'm married .. and? i don't wear a ring lost it back in the early 90's the wife wears one and crossed it twice .. sadly to say i'm hoping she's up to her old shady B.S even tho shes a 100 lbs heavier .. i just ask be up front , if you found someone i love you enough to let you go, but note? the grass is never greener it's just false turf on the other side , there is no man on earth today that would put up with your shit ... but if you are unhappy be freaken honest , i've seen and watched my own daughter go through the same crap yrs ago , the phone calls at 3am .. then to say nothing happened , he/she is just a friend .. i never got those words not even an Apology , it was to be swept under the rug like nothing happened , today? i get i never said that or it didnt happen, i know how some feel i really do ya just wanna bitch slap one .. like i do trust will always be broken .. its hard fix what once was < i'm living it now> i get i'm insecure was said to me over the weekend , i recieved a message on F/B from a female with a new account claiming she seen my wifes car at this co-workers house 7 yrs ago , i wanted to save it and show her but i forgot i had to get to work , so i came home was going to show her and it was gone vanished along with the account that send it so? i questioned her on it because she kept pushing whats wrong , you got that mean look on your face .. so i said Okay i left this go years ago forgive < but never forgot> i told her what i could remember in the message she laughed ..so then i went back more where she told me i care bout you but i dont love you no more ... those words she never said i said ask our son ! he was there .. and? next thing you know she changed the subject about the pool .. i laughed .. Sorry folks i've been numb for years over this one , it just sits in the back of my mind , Sorry just venting out after all i have read and what everyone is going thru ... it's freaken sad and pathitic on the cheaters half .. call me old fashion i beleive in the vows and done them twice with this woman .. like i said in my journal only thing i believe keeping here is the house , i worked my ass off for it as well as she did too , Kids are Adults both of them , now i have my G/childern all 3 ... that's the only thing keeping me on this earth again i apologize for ranting on , but i know the feeling where you just wanna slap the taste out of ones mouth Sincerly been there done that :) i hope all that has been thru this crap feel better and things work out for you as well as me
8 weeks ago my husband of 6 years in a relationship for 17 admitted he had been unfaithful it absolutely destroyed me we have two sons together, he kept saying he wanted another chance and it was a mistake I gave him ample opportunity to tell me who the OW was and he claimed he didn't no her, I recently found out it was a women we both know and he had lied I feel so alone and betrayed there's no...
Why would your spouse say " i do not wanna talk about it , it stress's me out guilt? the affair is true? SMH