
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Good luck to all!
I was extremely angry and hurt at my husband, but also just as angry at the OW. My anger towards my husband has diminshed because I'm with him every day and God has healed our marriage and he is better to me to me than he ever has and still apologizes after 18 months. But I'm still having trouble forgiving the OW, although that is my desire. I have a hard time believing a woman would do somehthing so awful to another woman she doesn't even know, in my case.
I just have to remember that the bible says you reap what you sew, and it also says "Vengeance is mine says the Lord." But I'm still having a hard time letting God handle it, even though I know He can do a much better job than I ever could. It is just a long road to travel, but I know that eventually the anger will diminish as well as the pain.
I have been able to get a drop of my anger and hurt over what he has done out and ask questions, try to make since of it. He almost and may still loose his family over what he has done, He has lost his kids respect. But his whore, what has she lost? She KNEW he was married. She meet my kids and I on several occasions. She was married. I was asked to keep her dirty secret and not tell her Husband. She has no one angry with her. She gets to go on with her life with all the wonderful memories she created with my H and she took a piece of him with her. He gave her his heart.