Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
My husband threw me and the kids out for a 21 year old alcoholic. She pops nerve pills like candy and smokes a whole lot of pot on top of it. What do you expect she's just a kid? He on the other hanf is 36 with responsibilities like children. I told him when this started she needed to go back home to Canada because I would not allow the kids to be around her. I told him our marriage needed to have some sort of resolution. He said "whatever." He could of cared less about the kids. Well he has seen them very little. I stood my ground about her. My 9 year old is really hurting because of this and having a hard time at school. That is a different story. Anyway now that the holidays are here he wants to take the kids! No Way!!! He hasn't cared for 6 months but now that the holidays are here he thinks he should have rites? She opened a fifth of vodka in the car with my little bot in the backseat and he didn't even care! She is nothing but trouble. They will not take my kids for any reason until a court order is in place!!! I'm sorry. What do you think?
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We've all been there - reading a lot of this information before ever stepping in and ever writing that you may have a problem. This is a safe space with people who care. Please say hello!
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
Plus, it's not safe to send your kids with them. What benefit is there?
How do the kids feel about their dad after what he's done? It's has to be hard for them. My daughter, who was only 10 at the time, had problems in school after I left her dad. They had a support group at the school that helped kids going through some type of loss, whether it be divorce, death, depression, etc. You might want to check into that. Just be sure and reassure them that this is not their fault. They always seem to feel its their fault, even though it's not.
It's always tough during the holidays having to deal with separation, divorce and just partner issues of infidelity. Hang in there and stay strong.
What does he see in this slush of a person anyway. Sounds like he needs to grow up.
Good luck to you and I wish you the best during the holidays!
I agree 100$ as well.
If he does take you to court, it helps if you have a spiral notebook, with documentation,
October 5, 2007
Husband and infidel (her name i mean) p/u the childrem sally, age 5, noah., age 7. blah. When they returned on Oct ? my 10 year old tld me that while they were driving infidel opened a bottle of vodka and began to drink fromit as they were driving. He did not notice whether or not my husband, who was driving, accepted her offer of a drink in the car.
Next page: On ??my husband told me that she uses illegal drugs. He did not elaborate. This causes me much concern for the safety of my children
I am respectfully requesting that my husband have supervised visitation until such time that I can be reassured that his home is a safe environment for the children.
The courts wont deny visitation but they will provide SUPERVISED (by a social worker) visitation for the PARENT ONLY.
Do not appear under any circumstances, in writing or in court to be angry or indignant or emotional at all. just the facts. Otherwise the judge may rule against you, because he thinks you are a woman scorned.
I AM NOT AN ATTORNEY, just have had some experience.
Good luck and you are doing the right thing. The woman I know who went through this, was told by her ex that his roomate's drug dealer came to the door and held them both at gunpoint, until payment arrangements had been made. Her children were NOT there...THAT NIGHT! They have not been there since.