I want to thank all the people here for their advice. In the past few weeks I have learned a lot. And since I dont really have people here I can talk with, it has helped me alot. For a long time I felt sorry for myself, felt like I was worthless, I mean if my wife would spend YEARS cheating on me, lying to me, humiliating me, then how could I be worth anything as a husband? And for the last year I have let her walk all over me just so she would stay, all the while she has continued in her secret life while telling me she loves me....Hey people, I have woke up!!! I made it very clear to her that the lies stop now..now more secret emails, phonecalls, texts, anything like that. Even if she is just still talking to the guy,,sorry that isnt allowed. Either she break it off with him completely or get out of this house and this family. The years of lying and cheating are over. She said ok, she wants to stay and will stop,,hey we will see,, if she truly will change then okay, I will let things go, however if I find out she is lying again...hey dont let the door hit ya on the way out...FINALLY, I have come to realize that I too am worth something,,at the very least I deserve the same amount of respect as everyone else does,,the same amount I have given her for years,,,so Thanks all,,I would never have realized it had I not read all your stories and listened to your advice..Good luck to all the people who have been cheated on,,you deserve better, and to all you cheaters..STOP! what your doing is wrong and you know it. If you want to change then change, quit making excuses.
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