I just want to thank everyone who gave my husband advice last night. He knew I joined this support group and wanted to see what everyones opinion on what he did and why he had his reasons for doing what he did. He was completely honest in what he wrote because he told me the exact same thing. I actually believe he took some advice from it and told the ow that he needed alot of time on his own to fix his own problems to make him be a better person for himself and his kids. He did not tell her it was over though which I knew in my heart he wouldn't do but, I think that is o.k because I don't want it to come back and kick me later that he gave something up for me that could be the best thing for him. He was at home when he called her and I did hear some of the things she said and I don't believe she is going to let this go. I kind of got upset when he didn't tell her that he still loved me and he told me that she already knows that. He told me he needed to do it this way to start removing her from his heart. He then left here for the night pretty upset and I haven't heard from him yet tonight and I don't know if I even will. I need to find it within myself to trust that he will follow his heart and it will bring him back home for good. I thank everyone for not bashing him cuz I really thought thats what people would have done. Know I have to find the person in myself that used to be there emotionaly for my H and show him I was always there I just didn't know how to show it. I honestly believe there is hope for us and I know it is going to take time for us both to heal. But, if both of our hearts are in it fully I know we can make it through anything. If anyone has any comments on if I am doing the right thing please let me know cuz I don't want to get my heart broken again I don't think it can take anymore.
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