How do you tell others what you have been going through realising that you have always had choices of staying or going without seeming stupid. H has been a liar and alcoholic and a cheat. I have put up with the lying and drinking for years always, obviously, hoping it would change. The finding out about the cheating is a new one. He puts on a face for everyone else but his family, so most think he is an OK guy, but he has let his family down again and again. I feel ashamed to tell people what has happened because I feel a fool. What rational person would put up with this behaviour? Therefore am I irrational? I feel I can't be open with people as obviosly the would think "well why do you stay with him?". Does anyone else feel like this?
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