Well, I can take the hint. Multiple threads started where the new guy isn't appreciated because he hasn't had an affair or been the victim of an affair.. I like how some people have to turn forums into a place only for "victims.." and call anyone outside the scope of that definition a "troll" or some other derogatory comment.

Did anyone stop to think that affairs affect more than just the two people involved..? How about the children..? Do those children grow up to be adults and have feelings and opinions...? Oh, OK...

Get out of the box. The two sides of the equation in affairs are biased, and rightly so. Sometimes unbiased, objective opinions are appreciated. In the case of this forum (for the most part), I guess not...

Either way, I'll move on as I don't want to prevent anyone from sharing their story or benefiting from the group. Thank you to those who offered me advice for my situation. I really appreciate the fact you took time to reply.

God Bless You and best wishes this Holiday Season...

Ciao,
Ted