I want to be a strong example for my daughter. And I think that being able to stand on my own two feet and take care of myself no matter what would be a great example to set for her. I am not saying that I am getting a divorce. I am saying that I have to start focusing on working and getting a career and being independent. I do a lot by myself, and work with all men, I am trying to be strong minded and I want to either move up at work and be in management or find another job where I can move up in time. Not yet, I am working part time right now so I can spend time with Elizabeth while she is still young. But I can't forget about myself and I can't allow myself to be dependent on my husband. he made mistakes, and I have too. I have not cheated on him, but I am not perfect either. I want to contribute more to our income and be able to provide if necessary. I want to feel better about myself in general, and this will help me to feel more confident and secure. I want to show my daughter that her mom also works hard and can take care of herself when need be. I hope to show my daughter that despite having difficulties in life, you can do anything you want to and you can still make a good life for yourself with or without a husband. I want her to be strong, and that means i Need to make the example of what a strong woman does in life. I can stay by my husbands side even after he has been unfaithful and still be a strong woman. It doesn't mean I am weak because I chose to work it out.
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