I should be getting a call back soon regarding my std tests after H's wondering. I'm curious to know what you all would do if you did end up testing positive for something? Would you contact the OP to inform them? And how many of you knew your std history (or lack of) prior to this? I know I was tested for std's prior to getting married and my husband was tested for some as well, but my records have been "shredded" and I can't find out exactly which ones they tested (I only know that I was negative for whatever was tested). I always have assumed that I am clean and that my husband is too. However (my obsessive mind has run through many scenarios here waiting on these results) what if there is something and they can't pinpoint when it came into our lives? I have read and read about these nasty diseases and many of them have no symptoms, even ones that I had always thought did. What if I can't, without a resonable doubt, prove that it was his affair that gave me something? What if he had something before we were married and I've had it now for 6 years without knowing it? Again, all of this is hopefully only a ridiculous surmise of paranoia, but what do you all think?
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