I feel like I need some advice/reassurance/inspiration that all of the hard work that my spouse and I do to repair our lives is going to pay off. I am much more comfortable in the role of comforting others than feeling confident in my own relationship. We are both very committed to making this marriage work, there is no concern of repeat behavior at this point, none of the "triggers" that I saw before, I trust him again, so why do I feel such intense sadness and fear sometimes? and sometimes I feel like everything is going to be ok? and sometimes I should just get out now before I've wasted more of my life, maybe there is someone out there who wouldn't have done this to me, although my gut says this is the man I am to be with, or I wouldn't have fought so hard for him and to get to this point. Why does it have to be so hard?
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