Hi been lurking around for a while and I need advice. I found out about my husbands affair about five months ago, he had been having an affair for the last two years. Of course i was devastated. Still I was ready to forgive him, we did a counseling program and I thought we were in the process of reconcilliation. Two months later i found out he was still sleeping with the OW- it was horrible finding out he was cabable of so much betrayal. I ended up in the hospital because i couldnt cope- i tried taking my life. When i came home from the hospital he had moved out. Weeks later he moved back in claiming he had seen the error of his ways but has not really done anything to show me he is remorsefull and i am so angry, that i feel like checking out and acting on feelings that i have started to develop for a friend...I dont know if i should give him more time or just move on. I feel like i am in a self destructive phase. This "friend" is not good for me at all and i know that but part of me just wants to be as careless and wreckless as my husband was.
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