Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
There's a fairly new song by Daughtry, which is so good and really sums up my experience and might sum up yours, too.
"Over You"
Now that it's all said and done,
I can't believe you were the one
To build me up and tear me down,
Like an old abandoned house.
What you said when you left
Just left me cold and out of breath,
I fell too far, was in way too deep.
Guess I let you get the best of me.
Chorus:
Well, I never saw it coming.
I should've started running
A long, long time ago.
And I never thought I'd doubt you,
I'm better off without you
More than you, more than you know.
I'm slowly getting closure.
I guess it's really over.
I'm finally getting better.
And now I'm picking up the pieces.
I'm spending all of these years
Putting my heart back together.
'Cause the day I thought I'd never get through,
I got over you.
You took a hammer to these walls,
Dragged the memories down the hall,
Packed your bags and walked away.
There was nothing I could say.
And when you slammed the front door shut,
A lot of others opened up,
So did my eyes so I could see
That you never were the best for me.
Chorus.
Pretty good song, isn't it?
"Over You"
Now that it's all said and done,
I can't believe you were the one
To build me up and tear me down,
Like an old abandoned house.
What you said when you left
Just left me cold and out of breath,
I fell too far, was in way too deep.
Guess I let you get the best of me.
Chorus:
Well, I never saw it coming.
I should've started running
A long, long time ago.
And I never thought I'd doubt you,
I'm better off without you
More than you, more than you know.
I'm slowly getting closure.
I guess it's really over.
I'm finally getting better.
And now I'm picking up the pieces.
I'm spending all of these years
Putting my heart back together.
'Cause the day I thought I'd never get through,
I got over you.
You took a hammer to these walls,
Dragged the memories down the hall,
Packed your bags and walked away.
There was nothing I could say.
And when you slammed the front door shut,
A lot of others opened up,
So did my eyes so I could see
That you never were the best for me.
Chorus.
Pretty good song, isn't it?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
i don't have the cd cover in front of me but it is number 10 on her b-day cd and i think it is called "resentment."
"i wish i could believe you and i'd be alright, but now everything you told me really don't apply to the way i feel inside. loving you was easy once upon a time but now my suspicions of you are multiplide and it's all because you lied.
i only give you a hard time cause i can't go on and pretend like, i haven't tried to forget this, but i'm much to full of resentment.
just can't seem to get over the way you hurt me don't know how you gave another who didn't mean a thing the very thing you gave to me i thought i could forgive and i know you've changed as much as i want to trust you i know it ain't the same and it's all because you lied........
i know she was attractive but i was here first been riding with you for 6 years why did i deserve to be treated this way by you, i know your probably thing what's up with "B" i've been crying for too long what did you do to me, i use to be so strong but now you took my soul im crying can"t stop crying....you could of told me you wasn't happy, i know you didn't want to hurt me but look what you've done to me now. i got to look at her in her eyes and see shes had half of me, why did you lie."
To the left
To the left
To the left
To the left
Mmm to the left to the left
Everything you own in a box to the left
In the closet that's my stuff
Yes, if i bought it, please don't touch
Keep talking that mess that's fine
But you walk and talk at the same time, and
Its my name that's on that Jag
So remove your bags let me call you a cab
Standing in the front yard tellin me how I'm such a fool
Talkin bout
How I'll never ever find a man like you
You got me twisted
You must not know bout me
You must not know bout me
I could have another you in a minute
Matter fact he'll be here in a minute
Baby
You must not know bout me
You must not know bout me
I can have another you by tomorrow
So don't you ever for a second get to thinkin
You're irreplaceable
So go ahead and get gone
Call up that chick and see if she's home
Oops, I bet you thought that I didn't know
What did you think I was putting you out for
Because you was untrue
Rollin her around in the car that I bought you
Baby drop them keys
Hurry up before your taxi leaves
Standing in the front yard tellin me how I'm such a fool
Talkin bout
How I'll never ever find a man like you
You got me twisted
You must not know bout me
You must not know bout me
I could have another you in a minute
Matter fact he'll be here in a minute
Baby
You must not know bout me
You must not know bout me
I will have another you by tomorrow
So don't you ever for a second get to thinkin
You're irreplaceable
So since I'm not your everything
How about I'll be nothing
Nothing at all to you
Baby I won't shed a tear for you (I won't shed a tear)
I won't lose a wink of sleep
Cuz the truth of the matter is
Replacing you is so easy
To the left
To the left
To the left
To the left
Mmm to the left, to the left
Everything you own in a box to the left
To the left
To the left
Don't you ever for a second get to thinkin
You're irreplaceable
You must not know bout me
You must not know bout me
I could have another you in a minute
Matter fact he'll be here in a minute
Baby
You must not know bout me
You must not know bout me
I can have another you by tomorrow
So don't you ever for a second get to thinkin
Baby
You must not know bout me
You must not know bout me
I could have another you in a minute
Matter fact he'll be here in a minute
You can pack all your bags, we finished
You must not know bout me
You must not know bout me
Cause you made your bed now lay in it
I can have another you by tomorrow
So don't you ever for a second get to thinking
You're irreplaceable
but resentment is so true!!!
I don't understand
You look just like the man
In the picture by our bed
The suspence is pounding and clouding up my head
I'm checkin' your clothes
And you wear the same size shoe
You sleep in his spot
And you're driving his car
But I don't know just who you are
There's a stranger in my house
It took a while to figure out
There's no way you could be who you say you are
You gotta be someone else
Cuz he wouldn't touch me like that
And he wouldn't treat me like you do
He would adore me, he wouldn't ignore me
So I'm convinced there's a stranger in my house
I'm not sure who you are
Don't see your shadow around when you walk
Ain't leavin' no kisses
Goodbye with no words
If these walls could talk
They would have nothing to tell
So what could it be?
Is there someone immitating me?
Could she be taking my place?
Look me in the face
And tell me that I'm wrong
When I say...
There's a stranger in my house
It took a while to figure out
There's no way you could be who you say you are
You gotta be someone else
Cuz he wouldn't touch me like that
And he wouldn't treat me like you do
He would adore me, he wouldn't ignore me
So I'm convinced there's a stranger in my house
Pop quiz
Tell me where we first kissed
Tell me where my spot is
Tell me if I liked it, loved it
Or could it be
That the stranger is me
Have I changed so drastically?
Is it I want more for me?
And you remain the same
There's a stranger in my house
It took a while to figure out
There's no way you could be who you say you are
You gotta be someone else
Cuz he wouldn't touch me like that
And he wouldn't treat me like you do
He would adore me, he wouldn't ignore me
So I'm convinced there's a stranger in my house
In this farewell
there's no blood
there's no alibi
coz I've drawn regret
from the truth
of thousand lies
So let mercy come
and wash away
What I've done
I face myself
to cross-out what I've become
erase myself
and let go of what I've done
Put to rest
what you've thought of me
Well I clean this slate
with the hands of uncertainty
So let mercy come
and wash away
What I've done
I face myself
to cross-out what I've become
erase myself
and let go of what I've done
For what I've done
I start again
and whatever pain may come
today this ends
Im forgiving what I've done
I face myself
to cross-out what I've become
erase myself
and let go of what I've done
What I've done
What I've done
Forgiving what I've done
I am on limewire now downloading that song! Great one.
My journal is just songs I feel for the day.
This is my fav
She asked if you could stay
Did ya think about me when you almost turned away
Did you think about me when you picked up the phone
Should have let it just ringing
And made it seem like everything was the same as it had always been
Did ya think about me being half awake and crying
Lying on the floor and waiting for the break of day
Didn't think about tearing me apart
At any moment in the night you could have tried to make it right
Why, why, why
Now in an after thought were you thinking about me
Dont know what you did it for cuz you were thinking about you
So you want me to believe you were thinking about me
Isn't hard for me to see you didn't stop for anything
How 'bout me being half awake and crying
Lying on the floor and waiting for the break of day
Didn't think about tearing me apart
At any moment in the night you could have tried to make it right
Give me one good reason why in time I should believe in you
You had me, you had it, everything
So close your eyes and remember all those lies
That you never say when you pretend that you
will be with me again
Did ya think about me being half awake and crying
Lying on the floor and waiting for the break of day
Didn't think about tearing me apart
At any moment in the night you could have tried to make it right
Why, why, why
Did ya think about me being half awake and crying
Lying on the floor and waiting for the break of day
Didn't think about tearing me apart
At any moment in the night you could have tried to make it right
Why, why, why---The Veronicas
I have a new favorite. Thanks. I will be blasting this till he hears it in his sleep!
Level 42, "Leaving Me Now"
It seems true love is so rare
Seems all Ive known is deceit
Your laughter fills the air
Once more Im sensing defeat
And I suppose youre leaving me now
I was so sure now Im so full of doubt
And I suppose youll be leaving this place
Just like the smile you wiped from my face
This time
I always gave my best
Your memory serves you so badly
Some people kill for less
Yet Id still die for you gladly oh, so gladly
But I suppose its my turn now
To play a scene thats familiar somehow
I turn the page and you walk away
Not even love could bring you to stay
This time
Walk away
You dont need me
Once more Im learning
In the depths of my despair
Your lies confirming
True love is so rare
And I suppose its my turn now
Theres no more love only feelings of doubt
Gone with the hope your words have erased
Gone with the smile you wiped from my face
Love is a ship we all hope to steer
Through troubled times cross an ocean of tears
A midnight sea that swells in your eyes
Takes just one look to know Im still mesmerized
But I suppose youre leaving me now
I was so sure now Im so full of doubt
I turn the page and you walk away
Not even love could bring you to stay
This time
Leaving me now
Leaving this place
I watch you walk away with an easy grace
I GOT A SPIRITUAL SONG.....
I need an angel by ruben studdard.
i've run out of answers i've run out of time
i'm so confused that i'm losing my mind
it's gonna take a miracle to help me this time
i'm traveling a road that has not one sign
help me
have mercy on me
set my soul free and let
the bell in my heart ring
oh this is my cry
this is my plea
i need an angel
im calling an angel
send me an angel down (repeat)
i'm carrying a load thats to heavy for me
have no where to go so im down on my knees
i'm tryin to see the forest but theres this one tree
i can't understand why i'm sinking so deep
help me have mercy on me
set me soul free and let the bell in my heart ring...
oh something inside of me is telling me the morning will come (yes it will)
oh sometimes it's hard to face the truth so we run (we run)
god if you care at all please don't let me fall by the wayside
please be my guide would you light my path
take me
shape me
mold me
change me
teach me
feel me
save me
chorus (i need an angel...)
if some of you have a song that you want to share but are not sure of all the words there is a site called dapslyrics.com
love you all
Sugarland, "Stay"
I been sittin' here starin'
At the clock on the wall
And I been layin' here prayin'
Prayin' she won't call
It's just another call from home
And you'll get it and be gone
And I'll be cryin'
And I'll be beggin' you, baby
Beg you not to leave
But I'll be left here waitin'
With my heart on my sleeve
Oh, for the next time we'll be here
Seems like a million years
And I think I'm dyin'
What do I have to do to make you see
She can't love you like me
Why don't you stay
I'm down on my knees
I'm so tired of bein' lonely
Don't I give you what you need
When she calls you to go
There is one thing you should know
We don't have to live this way
Baby, why don't you stay (yeah)
You keep tellin' me, baby
There will come a time
When you will leave her arms
And forever be in mine
But I don't think that's the truth
And I don't like bein' used
[Stay lyrics on http://www.metrolyrics.com]
And I'm tired 'a waitin'
It's too much pain to have to bear
To love a man you have to share
Why don't you stay
I'm down on my knees
I'm so tired of bein' lonely
Don't I give you what you need
When she calls you to go
There is one thing you should know
We don't have to live this way
Baby, why don't you stay (yeah)
I can't take it any longer
But my will is gettin' stronger
And I think I know just what I have to do
I can't waste another minute
After all that I put in it
I've given you my best
Why does she get the best of you
So next time you'll find
You wanna leave her bed for mine
Why don't you stay
I'm up off my knees
I'm so tired of bein' lonely
You can't give me what I need
When she begs you not to go
There is one thing you should know
I don't have to live this way
Baby, why don't you stay, yeah
Oh