Today my therapist recommended I find a "spy" that works in the coffee shop with the OW. I think he believes the affair is still going on and thinks I should protect myself. A couple of the women (mid 20's) that work there babysit for us but I don't think either one knows about the affair. I've been trying to move on from the details and having a weekly update about the OW prevents this but I obviously don't want to move on if the relationship hasn't completely ended. Advice??
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