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silly excuse for cheating

deleted_user
deleted_user
my husband of 8 yrs cheating with 2 OW at the same time in 2 countries. 1 OW knows he has wife but doesnt mind cos my husband promised to bring her into the country. the other 1 who is in the country got no idea he is married cos he told her that he is single. When I found out about the affairs my husband went crazy. he blames me for everything, call me inhuman for not happy with his affair. he said he is only a human being fell in love. so cruel of me not allow that to happen (this is crazy).
deleted_user
deleted_user
You could never be responsible for his choice to cheat on you. Don't ever let him make you feel that you are. He chose to be unfaithful and to hurt you like he did. It's wrong for him to blame you for his own choice to cheat. He sounds very confused and like he may need counseling if he can't accept the fact that he is hurting you by his actions. The fact that he chooses to "blame" you for what he is doing wrong in the marriage is terrible.

p.s. I was the one who cheated in my relationship and even I know better.
deleted_user
deleted_user
omg. that is so low. you need to get away from this man, he will give you all sorts of STDs, if he hasnt already. let him have these women, just not you at the same time. he has serious issues, and you deserve so much better. stay strong and look after yourself!!
RiS
RiS
We have to hang in there somehow. I barely do but also am tired of all the blame put on me for his cheating. He even started pulling excuses out of his butt!
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