My partner and I are thinking of moving in together come summer. It has only been a month since my affair - she demands that I sell my bed and get rid of the furniture i currently have in my apartment (basically anything that would remind her of the affair). The bed and the furniture were expensive gifts from my mother - My gf also wants back a few decorative items i have in my room that she purchased for me. I want to keep these items and she wants to give them away. Also, I am not certain I feel comfortable putting our finances together at this point (would like to keep them separate for time being until trust can be built). What should I do? I feel guilty/bad about the affair, but the items mean a lot to me. Do you think they will always remind her? Should I keep them in storage? What if her and I dont work out and I get rid of them? What would you do?
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