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Should it make me feel any better...???

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My husband had 3 affairs on me over a 13 year time frame. I just found out about EVERYTHING in June (2007) so it feels like it just has happened :-( I have received apologies from 2 of the 3 women and my husband. The 3rd woman I don't think she will ever contact my husband or me again she's so scared she'll lose her job because she did her contact and personal emails to my husband on her employer's time and computer. I had already told her I was going to make a complaint with her place of employment, so I'm hoping she is worried!!! ***My question is....should I feel better because I did get 3 out 4 apologies*** For some reason I'm not really feeling good about it and it doesn't seem to help me wanting to work on getting my marriage back on track. I think the apologies had been sincere, sounding pretty pathetic. One of the OW even had the nerve to tell me how hurt she was because my husband called her a whore just like him. How do I deal with this???
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my husbands whore apologized to me also but in the same breath told me that she loved my husband and that he was her happiness. if she meant her apology then she would have kept her feelings to herself because her feelings don't matter. i guess they matter to her but if she really felt bad for me and was truly remorseful then she would not have tried to rub that in my face.

i can't imagine his whores apologies meaning much but it all depends on the person. i understand what you mean because hers meant nothing to me and it did not change the disgust i felt for her or my husband. sorry you are going thru this.
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I never got an apology from my ex's girl. But she's 20, and I heard that her response to the whole thing was "shit happens." That actually makes me feel better because that is the type of girl he deserves, not someone like me. Remember that you are better than them too.
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His whore said WHATEVER- they too deserve each other
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