I am in a real tough position. I have been married for 8 1/2 yrs. to a man I thought was a decent, honorable man. I was wrong. He is now, as I write this, with the girl he\'s in love with, 5000 miles from home. This is their first meeting. He called me a little bit ago and said that he does want to work on our marriage and that he does love me. I don\'t believe him. It\'s hard to believe a guy loves you, when he\'s also saying it to another. She is also married, so the only reason he\'ll stay with me is if she won\'t leave her husband, and she\'s not sure yet. So he cares way more for her than he does me. And yesterday I was in the ER all day, and most likely have to return. I have kidney failure and other medical problems, and now I have severe chest pain. I was in a coma last year for 2 weeks, and I had chest pains before that, so I\'m a little worried. My husband knew about the chest pain, and the ER trip, but he was at the airport before I even got back from the hospital- he left anyway, yet claims to care very much. He\'s such an ass- and he can\'t see that he\'s doing anything hurtful. The problem? I have no marketable job skills, and didn\'t finish college, and I am very sick and can not work. I financially can\'t leave him and I don\'t know if I should give him yet another chance, since this is the second time he\'s fallen in love with a married woman. The last one was my best friend. He was great, and he behaved until I got really sick and it went downhill to where we are now. Any advice anyone?
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