My husband told me 6mths ago he wasn't happy. We started seeing a therapist and after we each went a few times alone, we started going together. After about the 4th time I said I couldn't come back. He just keeps saying he isn't happy and doesn't know what will make him happy. So he went a few times. and then quit. I found out he cheated on me. I went back to the therapist and talked to her. I want to work this out. I forgive him. But when I suggested a mariage weekend to help us he said he would go back to the therapist first with me and then decide. I think he wants a divorce. But I don't. I truly love him and want to get back on track. I feel horrible. I don't know how to help him. He had some health issues, but was able to resolve them. I think he is having a midlife crisis, and just thinks a divorce would be easier. I want to help him understand his feelings and get back the love he once had for me. He is very successful and I have not had to work. We have 2 children in college, not living at home. Please help.
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