Am I the odd ball here??? My H had a 4 month affair, that was really more like 2 months, since I was with him half of that time. My H thought he had a friend at work that was nice and listened to his marital problems, funny I didn't know we had any, also I didn't know she was a friend in the first place. Anyways, I was out of town and he reached his ultimate low, he was talking to the whore and she asked to hang out, he said sure come over to my house, she said she was going to play playstation with him, Isn't that hilarious!!!I was out of town, which is one of his problems with me. He slept with her that night, they were drunk and he allowed her to sleep in our bed. Things went off and on for the next 4 months, I was there 2 of those months the rest of the time I was in PA because he told me to leave on 2 different occasions. At 4 months when I thought we were over, didn't really know why but I was so confused as to what the hell was going on and of course I never thought that it could be an affair. He confessed to me what was going on that he had an affair with the whore, after a lot of questions and answers I find myself learning a lot about affairs. From the day my H confessed he was committed to making things work with me, he knew he messed up and potentially lost his family which is why it took him this time to come forward because he didn't know how to tell me or how I would react, although in the mean time he was still hanging out with her and having sex with her. He claims he never wanted to be with her over me, he was confused and he knew he put her before me and pushed me away. He is every womans ideal H now, he is doing everything right. I read a lot of post about lack of affection but my H is giving me more than ever. He truly realizes that he screwed up and wants me now more than ever. I hear others say their H doesn't love them, but my H loves me so much, I can see it in his eyes, I haven't seen this kind of passion in a long time. He has had no desire to contact her at all, if I say her name he cringes, I truly don't think he thinks of her at all. So the question is should I just be grateful that my H is better than ever, that he loves me more and more everyday and that it truly was just a mistake?
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